FOCUS ON THE OUTCOME YOU WANT TO CREATE
Written By: Sue Sexton MA Licensed Psychologist
Thoughts Matter because Matter is Created from Thoughts. In simpler terms, everything begins with a thought. It's that energy that forms into words that are spoken, actions that are taken, habits that are formed which develops into your character or sense of identity, which in the long run creates your FUTURE LIFE. So, you might wonder WHY this matters for you?
I personally witness in humanity that people THINK pretty negatively. In addition, there is a lot of hardship in our day to day world. People are hurting each other. When we witness these horrible acts unfolding, it's easy to become activated into emotion and desire to take action. This is where it's important to CHOOSE your THOUGHTS, first and foremost. Because your thoughts pave the next steps for your journey ahead.
In fact, many of our current activism efforts are focusing thoughts on entirely the wrong things! Yikes, right?
As Dr. Wayne Dyer clearly stated "Where our thoughts go, our energy flows". So, as an example, while having good intentions, groups that fight for "gun violence, school shootings, or misogyny" to STOP, they may actually be creating MORE of exactly what they don't want. Double Yikes, right?
Why is this? Well, the energy we put into our thoughts and words, reverberates into a CREATION energy. We create what we think. So if we say "no more gun violence", the universe unfortunately doesn't hear the "no" part and instead processes "more gun violence". Triple Yikes! The universe does not respond to negatives. If you think over and over "please don't die" to your elderly grandparent, they are actually more likely to die than if you thought "please live".
Within humanity, we have to be careful of our words. Positive words matter. Focusing on WHAT YOU WANT TO CREATE vs. what you don't want to create, matters. Thoughts matter because matter is created from thoughts. Choose wisely.
Licensed Psychologist (MA), Writer, Top Wellness Public Speaker & Workshop Facilitator at Sue Sexton Psychotherapy LLC: Speaking Heart to Heart
A Saint Paul, MN
Creator of 11:11 Peace On Earth Movement
Curator of humanitarian projects Water Bottle Challenge & Arts Heal Hearts
"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence." - Helen Keller.
HEAL DOCUMENTARY RESEARCH:
By: Kelly Noonan Gores
Change is a delicate process. It's like the seasons that unfold around us, each having its own unique story and process. Depending on where you live, your experiences in life, and what's been modeled for you; your seasons will be incredibly different from another person's seasons.
What doesn't vary so much, are the options that all humans can use to HEAL their story.
I watched the documentary HEAL a few months ago and was moved by the research performed and how each human chose between 100's of healing modalities, there were overlapping modalities that really supported each participant more than the others. Here is the list they formed:
* Radically Changing your Diet
(Eliminate Processed Foods. Eat Whole, Organic, Raw Foods as often as possible)
* Taking Control of your Health
(Get in touch with your body, listen, and take informed steps towards your own health)
* Following your Intuition
(Listen to what "feels" right. Learning to listen to that inner voice that we all have. That "gut" feeling when you know something's right or off: It's Intuition)
* Using Herbs and Supplements
(Think outside the pharmaceutical box. Consult with an herbalist or holistic doctor to heal your body. Plants have been used for centuries to cure illness and support well-being. Explore this lost wisdom.)
* Releasing Suppressed Emotions
(Psychotherapy & movement is legit. Truth is, our body keeps the score. Every stress you've felt both physically and emotionally, is still in your cellular memory. Release this through talking and movement.)
* Increasing Positive Emotions
(The more we allow positive emotions to flood our body, mind, and soul, we decrease stress hormone levels. Lower stress hormones means less inflammation in our body. Less inflammation leads to less autoimmune responsiveness. Which means you are healthier holistically.)
* Embracing Social Support
(We need other humans. We are born with the desire and need to connect. Its part of our basic biological make up. When we accept help, our levels of stress decrease and happiness increase.)
* Deepening your Spiritual Connection
(Finding a method that allows you to tap into a higher source or connection with spirit. This can take many forms: there is no right or wrong. It's remembering we all come from something larger than us, and we can lean on this source for support, through prayer or meditation, in time of need)
* Have a Strong Reason for Living
(Wanting to live is important. What is your purpose and reason for getting up in the morning. What gives your life meaning, joy, connection, and worth. If you don't know, please begin to explore potential options)
It's important to find a combination of helpful options for yourself.
(Disclaimer: I am not a Medical Doctor and do not have training to offer medical advice. I am trained as a Psychologist and am Licensed to offer support and treatment for Emotional Health Conditions. Please seek out face to face consultation and treatment with a medical professional or team, who can follow your holistic well-being. Thank you.)
Hello! Sue here, ready to share a little more of what I know with the World at Large.